End the Dysfunctional Cycles in Your Relationship and Stay in Love for Life
End the Dysfunctional Cycles in Your Relationship and Stay in Love for Life
Is the FREE Relationship Grid Assessment for you?
- You want to feel closer and more connected to your partner and find a way to resolve conflicts more easily and effectively.
- You want to understand why you and your partner keep having the same fights so you can actually get past them and change for the better.
- You want to break the dysfunctional patterns that keep showing up in your relationship and treat one another better in the long run.
- You want a clear path for you and your partner to not only keep falling in love with one another, but to actually stay in love no matter what happens.
- You want to build a more loving, authentic and meaningful relationship with your partner and show up as your best self as much as possible.
If the above resonated with you, then you’re in the right place. Terry Real created this Relationship Grid Assessment so that you and your partner can better understand, work with, and improve each other’s relational stances and build a more loving relationship as a result.
If you are sincere and lucky, once you take action from the results in this quiz, everything in your life can change drastically: from how you feel about yourself, to how loving you are with the people around you and perhaps even how loving they are with you.
Are you ready to end the dysfunctional cycles in your relationship and build a more loving one as a whole?
When you take the FREE Relationship Grid Assessment, you will:
- Gain a clear understanding of your automatic responses in relationships that stem from your maladaptive Inner Child.
- Understand where your level of boundaries and self-esteem fall on the Relationship Grid relative to health so you can break your self-defeating patterns of behavior.
- Map out the appropriate skills that you and your partner will need to build in order to create a healthier dynamic in your relationship especialy during conflicts.
- Learn how to tap into your Wise Adult Self whenever you’re triggered so you can show more compassion and kindness in your relationship.
- Gain clarity on the path that you and your partner can take in order to create a more loving, joyful and connected relationship for good.
The results in this assessment will lead you towards the path of living a truly relational life so you can build a more loving connection with yourself, with others, and with the world.
When you take the FREE Relationship Grid Assessment, you will:
- Gain a clear understanding of your automatic responses in relationships that stem from your maladaptive Inner Child.
- Understand where your level of boundaries and self-esteem fall on the Relationship Grid relative to health so you can break your self-defeating patterns of behavior.
- Map out the appropriate skills that you and your partner will need to build in order to create a healthier dynamic in your relationship especialy during conflicts.
- Learn how to tap into your Wise Adult Self whenever you’re triggered so you can show more compassion and kindness in your relationship.
- Gain clarity on the path that you and your partner can take in order to create a more loving, joyful and connected relationship for good.
The results in this assessment will lead you towards the path of living a truly relational life so you can build a more loving connection with yourself, with others, and with the world.
About Terry Real
Terry Real is an internationally recognized family therapist, acclaimed speaker and best-selling author. As the founder of the Relational Life Institute (RLI), Terry and his team have offered workshops for couples, individuals and parents all across the US, along with a professional training program for clinicians wanting to learn his Relational Life Therapy (RLT) methodology.
A senior faculty member of The Family Institute of Cambridge in Massachusetts and a retired clinical fellow of The Meadows Institute in Arizona, Terry has worked with thousands of individuals, couples, and fellow therapists for more than two decades.
A family therapist and teacher for more than twenty five years, Terry is the best-selling author of: I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression (Scribner, 1997), the straight-talking How Can I Get Through to You? Reconnecting Men and Women (Scribner, 2002) and most recently, a New York Times Best Seller – Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (2022) and others.
With its rigorous commonsense approach, Terry’s work speaks to both men and women—leading couples on a step-by-step journey to greater intimacy and greater personal fulfillment. His ideas on men’s issues and on couples therapy have also been celebrated in various venues and publications—from Good Morning America, The Today Show and 20/20, to Oprah and The New York Times.
Terry has been passionately committed for decades about giving individuals and couples both a map and a sophisticated toolkit for living truly relational lives—lives of deep connection to themselves, to the people they love, and to the planet as a whole.
As part of his commitment to helping people become more conscious, thoughtful and intenttional individuals, he hopes that with this free summit, anyone can finally begin the journey towards creating the relationships that they deserve.
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What People Say About Terry Real
“Terry Real helps overturn old-fashioned, confining roles and opens up a treasury of hope for lasting and exciting intimacy for couples everywhere.”
– Edward Hallowell, M.D., author of Crazy Busy
“Falling in love is easy, staying in love is another matter. Couples yearning for more closeness are truly in uncharted territory . . . until now, that is. Terry offers amazing new insights about men and women and what it takes to make relationships work in our ever-changing culture.”
–Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW, author of Divorce Busting
“If you’re tired of the same old dance, get ready to learn a few new steps—real steps—the ones that will make a difference in your life and the lives of those you love.”
–Cheryl Richardson, author of Life Makeovers
Get Your Free Assessment in 5 Minutes
Take the Quiz
Get immediate access to the quiz after signing up free on this page. In a series of questions, you will be asked to provide an honest assessment of how much you identify with certain patterns of behavior in your relationship, especially during times of conflict.
Study Your Results
Upon submitting, you will get your results on this page and via email. Your answers will then be mapped out on the Relationship Grid, with each result explained in further detail by Terry. Make sure to watch the video and study the illustrations!
Work on Next Steps
After studying your results, you’ll get a general picture of the strategies that could help you. Make sure to pay attention at this point: you’ll learn about a uniqe opportunity to apply what you’ve learned with direct guidance from Terry himself.
Resolve Conflicts More Effectively and Build a More Loving Relationship with Your Partner
