Welcome to the Passionate, Deeply Connected Relationship You Deserve

You’re not broken. And neither is your relationship. Beneath the distance, the fights, the disconnection — there’s a pattern. And once you see it, everything changes.

What’s Holding You Back From a Better Relationship Isn’t What You Think

Most people think love fades because people change.
Or because you’re not “compatible.” But that’s not the truth. The real reason most relationships struggle is because we were never taught how to:

This program changes that. It gives you the essential relational skills that make love not just possible — but lasting.

A Complete Map for Relational Healing

Whether you’ve been together 3 years or 30, most couples struggle with the same thing: you don’t know how to repair. You’re not broken. But your relationship may be stuck in a loop.

Terry Real’s Staying in Love gives you the skills to shift that loop—for good. This isn’t another communication course. It’s a full system to:

Essential Relationship Skills to Maximize Connection, Happiness, and Repair

This program isn’t just education — it’s transformation.
Each piece is designed to help you embody change and make it stick:

6 Core Video Modules

with Terry Real — guiding you step by step through the Relationship Grid, boundaries, disconnection, and repair.

3 Bonus Q&A Recordings

— real sessions with couples where Terry coaches through live issues, showing the method in action.

Downloadable Worksheets

practical tools and scripts to bring the teachings into your real relationship dynamics.

Audio-Only Versions

perfect for listening on the go, integrating the work at your pace.

7-Day Practice Plan

a structured, actionable daily plan to make sure this doesn’t stay as theory.

Module Breakdown:

The Power of Us Consciousness

with Terry Learn why most relationship advice doesn’t work, and how shifting from individualism to a shared “Us” mindset is the key to lasting love. Discover how modern culture sabotages connection, and how to reclaim closeness through the lens of mutuality, teamwork, and relational mindfulness. Real — guiding you step by step through the Relationship Grid, boundaries, disconnection, and repair.

The Relationship Grid: Grandiosity & Shame

Uncover the core relational dynamics of superiority and inadequacy that derail connection. Learn how grandiosity and shame distort communication, fuel arguments, and mask vulnerability — and how to shift into your grounded, relational self.with Terry Learn why most relationship advice doesn’t work, and how shifting from individualism to a shared “Us” mindset is the key to lasting love. Discover how modern culture sabotages connection, and how to reclaim closeness through the lens of mutuality, teamwork, and relational mindfulness. Real — guiding you step by step through the Relationship Grid, boundaries, disconnection, and repair.

Boundaries That Heal (Part 1)

Go beyond basic boundary-setting and discover the profound difference between healthy limits and protective walls. Learn how boundaries are not about control but about protecting connection. Identify where your own boundaries collapse or become rigid — and what to do instead.

The Full Grid: Putting It All Together

Integrate boundary function and self-esteem into one powerful tool. Discover your personal reactive quadrant and the typical strategies that show up in conflict. Get a clear map of your triggers — and how to return to relational health from any quadrant.

The Rhythm of Intimacy: Harmony, Disharmony & Repair

Learn why all relationships cycle through closeness, disruption, and repair — and why disillusionment is not the end, but the beginning of real love. Discover the mystical truth: we marry our unfinished business. And the key to intimacy is knowing how to come back.

The Repair Process (And Beyond)

Get Terry’s complete step-by-step framework for repair, as taught at institutions like Harvard and Esalen. Discover the difference between reacting and responding. Learn how to drop your defenses, re-center in your wise adult, and repair even the deepest ruptures with strength and tenderness.

This Is for You If:

You’ve tried therapy, books, or “better communication”—but nothing lasts

You feel like you’re the only one trying to fix things

You shut down or explode in conflict—and don’t know how to stop

You’re in a long-term relationship
that feels stuck or at risk

You want practical tools,
not more talk

Most Relationship Advice Doesn’t Work - Because It’s Surface-Level

Relational healing doesn’t come from tips and tricks. It comes from understanding the emotional stances you and your partner fall into… especially under stress.

Terry Real’s unique “Relationship Grid” reveals exactly what happens when things go wrong… and how to reconnect from the inside out.

You’ll walk away with:

This is the work most people never learn. But it’s learnable. And it works.

Meet the Therapist Who’s Helped 100,000+ Couples

Terry Real is a bestselling author and the founder of Relational Life Therapy (RLT). For over 30 years, he’s helped individuals and couples break free from toxic patterns and build deeply connected, fiercely loving relationships. At the heart of Terry’s method is a profound truth: most of us are still living out survival strategies we learned as children that now sabotage our closeness and ability to meaningfully repair.

Terry offers both a map and a sophisticated toolkit to move beyond these losing strategies and practice the powerful relational skills needed to make love work. Only then can people live a truly relational life in deep connection – to themselves, each other, and the planet as a whole.

A former senior faculty member of the Family Institute of Cambridge in Massachusetts, Terry is the author of four books, including the recent New York Times bestseller Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship.

His original insights on couples therapy, relationships, and men’s issues have been featured in outlets from Oprah and Vogue to Psychotherapy Networker and CNN.

Trusted By Experts, Celebrities, and Institutions Around the World

Terry’s tools have changed the lives of thousands – and earned trust across the most respected stages and platforms in the world.

Change Starts Now

You don’t have to wait for a crisis to change your relationship. You don’t have to drag your partner into therapy.

And you don’t need to keep living the same loop again and again. This is your moment to break the cycle — and build something new.

Price

$99 (slashed from $397)

Note: Start the Program – $99 (Limited Time Offer)

Our Promise and Guarantee

We are confident you’ll be happy with Staying in Love. However, if you are not 100% satisfied with your purchase, simply contact us at support@terryreal.com within 10 days and we’ll give you a full refund.

Your Relationship Deserves More Than Survival

Learn the skills to make love work — for real.

“ Terry Real’s teachings were life-changing for me and my husband. We’ve been together for over 30 years, and you’d think there wasn’t much left to learn. But this shifted us to a deeper, more loving level. My love-avoidant, grandiose man said so himself—and his love-dependent, grandiose wife agrees. We now see ourselves and each other with fresh eyes. ”

— Jac Palmer, London, UK

“ What I love most about Terry’s work is how practical and direct it is. His approach is honest, grounded, and courageous—especially when one partner’s behavior needs to be called in, not avoided. It’s changed how I see and show up in

— R.M.

“After countless hours of therapy, Terry was the first person who actually saw the root cause of our conflict. It was a pattern, not a flaw. That changed everything.”

— C.M.

“ We spent hundreds of thousands of dollars and years in therapy across New York and New Jersey—and still didn’t know what was getting in the way of our intimacy. As a last resort, we flew to Boston for one 80-minute session with Terry. In that single session, he laser-focused on the root of our conflict and gave us a diagnosis that finally made sense. For the first time ever, I felt completely understood and validated. ”

— C.M.